Love

Has Single been my chosen reality?

Has Single been my chosen reality?

It’s beginning to occur to me that my perpetual single status may not have been circumstantial, as I originally thought, and more my chosen reality. This realization began as I was coaching a friend on relationship matters, as I often find myself doing, and I had a...

Are your deal breakers really deal breakers?

Are your deal breakers really deal breakers?

I haven’t done a lot of dating in the past year, but decided to give it a shot last week. This guy I went out with was pretty posh! Tall, physically fit, very handsome (a full head of dark hair, with just the right amount of salt and pepper, bright blue eyes, a slight...

I need to learn to love myself!

I need to learn to love myself!

I had a misconception that the ability to love myself was some elusive concept, out there in the distance somewhere, that I was striving for. If I could reach that goal, I’d have it figured out. If I could just learn how to love myself, then I could allow a man to love me and maybe, just maybe, I could have a successful relationship.