Has Single been my chosen reality?

It’s beginning to occur to me that my perpetual single status may not have been circumstantial, as I originally thought, and more my chosen reality. This realization began as I was coaching a friend on relationship matters, as I often find myself doing, and I had a...

Are your deal breakers really deal breakers?

I haven’t done a lot of dating in the past year, but decided to give it a shot last week. This guy I went out with was pretty posh! Tall, physically fit, very handsome (a full head of dark hair, with just the right amount of salt and pepper, bright blue eyes, a slight...

I need to learn to love myself!

“You owe yourself the love that you so freely give to other people.” Alexandra Elle I need to learn to love myself. Have you ever heard someone say that? Have you ever said it yourself? I had a misconception that the ability to love myself was some elusive...

Love without Attachment

Affirmation My past relationship is complete and I accept the healing. I know that all relationships are successful, no matter how long they last. I recognize this experience as something my soul can use for evolution and awareness. People grow, both together and...

Show up and be you!

You cannot go wrong by showing up in life and being authentically you. Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves… Who am I...