I need to learn to love myself!

I need to learn to love myself!

“You owe yourself the love that you so freely give to other people.”

Alexandra Elle

I need to learn to love myself.

Have you ever heard someone say that? Have you ever said it yourself?

I had a misconception that the ability to love myself was some elusive concept, out there in the distance somewhere, that I was striving for. If I could reach that goal, I’d have it figured out. If I could just learn how to love myself, then I could allow a man to love me and maybe, just maybe, I could have a successful relationship.

Then one glorious day, as I sat on my faithful yoga mat, in that yoga class I chose to attend, at that ashram in the Bahamas I took myself to for 3 months…I had an emotional breakthrough.

I already know how to love myself! And I’m doing it every day.

It’s not elusive, out there in the distance, it’s right here within my spirit. I just have to practice it. Just like returning to my yoga mat every day makes me more flexible, the practice of loving myself will become second nature. And I’m an over-achiever, I don’t do things half way, I dominate! So you better believe I’m going to get darn good at loving myself.

It’s astonishing how my reality has changed since I changed my perception.

I’m single, so I date, but I don’t sit around waiting for a guy to choose me. I choose myself.

I’m a blogger, social networking is an important part of my business, so all those “likes” from my followers are great, but they’re extra, because I wake up every morning and like myself.

Demonstrate love by giving it, unconditionally to yourself. And as you do, you will attract others into your life who will love you without conditions.

What if you simply devoted this day, this week, this month, this year, to loving yourself?

Love without Attachment

Love without Attachment


My past relationship is complete and I accept the healing.

I know that all relationships are successful, no matter how long they last.
I recognize this experience as something my soul can use for evolution and awareness.
People grow, both together and apart.
I recognize and accept that another soul’s journey is happening exactly as it’s meant to.

The love is, and always will be, real.
I honor the love more than the loss.

I love and accept myself, exactly as I am.
And I love and accept others exactly as they are.

I forgive myself.
I am happy to be me, in all my magnificence and mistakes.
I am free.

I make a conscious decision to feel true love for myself, every day.
I am a faithful caretaker of my life.
I give myself the gift of comfort, nurturing, exercise, health and appreciation daily.
I give to my own life first and then share my abundance with others.

My thoughts and actions are in the present moment.
I am responsible for my intentions, which come from my personal values.

I attract people who want to be with me and appreciate me.
My authentic self is a magnet to the people who are right for me and fulfill my life the most.
I attract and choose to invest in relationships with people who’s authentic self brings love, light, peace and joy into my life.
If any relationships are currently in my life, or come to me, that are not fulfilling or supportive, I lovingly release them back into the Universe.

I have my own eternal reservoir of love.
I define my authentic self and my own life.
Others coming into my life simply add to this deep endless supply of love.

My soul’s worth is always of value.

My unwavering outlook on life is always vibrant and trusting that the Universe knows what’s best for me and will provide it at the right time.

Love without attachment is light.

Norman O. Brown

I give love without attachment.
This, in essence, is self love.